mercoledì, agosto 21, 2013

Out of my element

Home again home again pukety jig. Can't pretend to be a bit happy about it. No matter how psychologically over buttered it is in Canada, it beats the loneliness and boredom here. And of course Godzilla just drives that home. How dare I raise him on the opposite side of the planet from so many people who love him?

Well, we're moving to Melbourne as a sort of stop-gap measure pretty much as soon as we can get this house rented out, and that's something. Yesterday I realized that if we stay here it's just a matter of time until I go full-on Madame Bovary. Squalid and stupid as all that sort of thing is, I think loneliness and boredom are the sort of drivers that make you stop caring that it's stupid and squalid. They're poisonous.

Speaking of, I'm really enjoying how breastfeeding and the consequent 80% drop in my sex drive is giving me a sort of objective, out-of-body perspective on the whole institution of sex. It all seems so deadly important until you don't care. Incidentally I think that sort of attitude makes Madame Bovary shit more rather than less possible.

2 commenti:

e.f. bartlam ha detto...

Welcome home.

Don't not care too much. Sexual intimacy is deadly important to the male psychi...our self esteem is entirely dependent on being desired by a woman.

It's the only reason we do anything. No man in his right mind would get something as dreadful as a job if it weren't for you ladies.

Ha

Mistress La Spliffe ha detto...

Poor youse guys. No wonder so many men lapse into uselessness.